The Edge of Your Becoming

Did you like what you hear?  Feel free to tweet these out to your followers! What’s your edge? @miakalef says, “Your leading edge is the edge of your becoming.” Sign up for free “The Universe learns through you—even through your so-called mistakes.” What’s your leading edge?

Making Space

It’s been over twenty five years since I began my healing journey. Each five-year handful has had it’s own flavour. Early on I’d look for understanding—to know what was bothering me.  Knowing was important, because my early life was full of deceit.  But once I “knew” my real history, a deeper motivator had to emerge, something sophisticated. Read more about Making Space[…]

Non Violent Waiting

“How can we wait with neither fear nor force?” @miakalef is blogging about #NonViolence “Why fill the void with tension when a birth must come out of that darkness?” #WatchTheSahius with @miakalef

Freedom From Victimhood

“Feeling wronged? What if freedom from victimhood is whether we allow people to live in our hearts rent free?” “If you stand for “zero-tolernace” on power differentials, then there’s no perpetrator and no victim.  You and the other are free.” #WatchTheSahius

On Evil

While walking into Andrew Feldmar’s living room to prepare for the interview, he casually asks, “so why evil?  What made you want to talk about that?”  I simply say, “Oh, it just came to mind.” I notice how innocent I sound given the gravity of our subject. I then say something about how it’s also because I think he’s writing Read more about On Evil[…]


Several years ago, one of my mentors, Andrew Feldmar, shared a story about his mentor, R.D. Laing. Laing was an innovative Psychiatrist—who encouraged his patients living in insane asylums to instead go and live communally, in a house, or even with him and his family. He had the good sense to acknowledge that people who had so-called, “mental illnesses”, Read more about Longing[…]